Confession: I can’t code.
I don’t argue about frameworks. I don’t optimize databases. I don’t say things like “just refactor it” with confidence. But I do spend an unhealthy amount of time thinking about why products feel the way they feel when you use them.
That’s how I ended up building What’s The Vibe and why I think random video chat has been quietly broken for years, even though it technically works just fine.
Random Video Chat Is a Speedrun to “Skip”
You know the loop.
You load in.
A stranger appears.
You say “hey.”
They say “hey.”
Someone skips.
Repeat until you question your life choices.
From the outside, platforms like Omegle look wildly successful. Millions of users, instant connections, zero friction. From the inside, it feels like a slot machine where every pull is slightly awkward.
That’s not a bug. That’s the design.
Everyone’s Been Fixing the Wrong Thing
When people talk about improving random video chat, it usually turns into:
“We need better moderation.”
“We need more filters.”
“We need AI to detect bad behavior.”
Sure. All true. But that’s like adding cup holders to a car that doesn’t know where it’s going.
The real issue is simpler and more uncomfortable: we connect people without giving them a reason to care.
So they don’t.
Being Non-Technical Is Actually the Superpower Here
Here’s the thing I noticed as a non-technical founder:
random video chat didn’t fail because of bad code it failed because no one questioned the premise.
The product assumes:
Total randomness is fun forever
Awkwardness = authenticity
Skipping is just how people behave
But humans aren’t NPCs. We need context. Even a little bit.
And that’s not something you fix with a faster backend.
Context Is the Cheat Code
People talk differently when they know why they’re there.
Same mood. Same curiosity. Same reason to click “join.”
Suddenly:
Conversations last longer
Skipping feels rude instead of reflexive
Safety improves without screaming about safety
It’s wild what happens when you give strangers literally one signal before they meet.
I broke this down more deeply in a long form post on why Omegle alternatives haven’t really evolved and what video chat needs to become version 2.0:
https://whatsthevibe.co/blog/whatsthevibe-co-blog-omegle-alternatives-why-video-chat-hasnt-evolved
So What Am I Actually Building?
What’s The Vibe isn’t trying to be louder, weirder, or more chaotic.
It’s trying to answer one question before the call starts:
“Why are these two people talking right now?”
That’s it. That’s the bet.
When conversations start with intention instead of randomness, people stop treating each other like content to swipe past.
A Friendly Note to Builders
If you’re technical, you already know how powerful good code is.
But some problems don’t show up in logs or dashboards. They show up in that split second where a user decides to stay… or hit skip.
Random video chat doesn’t need another clone.
It needs someone technical or not to say, “Wait… why does this feel like this?”
That’s the question I’m chasing. And honestly? It’s been way more fun than I expected.